I have heard so many people and friends around me saying that they want to try a threesome with their partner and don’t know how to do it. There are also many swinger singles trying to find swinger couples for a threesome. It suddenly occurred to me that many people are too hesitate to try threesome hookup just because they don’t know how to. I think I should and I am able to offer them some tips and advice on this. These tips are for people who have decided to have threesome. If you are one of them, keep reading…
No feelings, but only attraction. You shouldn’t have any feelings with the third person if you are a couple, but you can be sexually attracted to the third person. The same for singles toward couples. This should start from picking. When you choose a person to have threesome hookup with, there shouldn’t be any particular person you want to choose. If you have someone you want to invite to, it is possible that you have feelings for that person. This is not good for your relationship. Therefore, it would be better that you both go to a bar and find a person whom you both think it is attractive sexually. For example, she has a nice butts or pretty face. That is attraction. It is different from feelings. This is very vital.
Take some time and do not rush. Take some time to get to know each other before can boost the bond among you three. Build the intimacy. Start with a nice talking. Then gentle touch and kissing. Make it as smooth as possible. You have plenty of time for this, right? A prolonged foreplay will increase the sexual anticipation and generates more pleasure and sexual satisfactory.
Prepare an extra condom. You can never know who he/she has been with before you. Some people may have STD and they don’t want you to know until you catch it. Therefore, protection is very necessary. Always use condom if you are a dude. Remind him to use condom if you are a woman. What is more, threesome requires two condoms. Use different condom with different person. Make sure everyone is safe after it.
Everyone is included. It can be very easy to leave out someone in a threesome. If there is anyone being left out, that wouldn’t be a threesome, right? Therefore, make sure everyone is included. It is not hard actually. When you see someone is available, go down on him/her. You have one mouth and two hands, make them useful. Try to satisfy their needs if possible. Make sure everyone is having fun, because if someone is not having fun, it may ruin your threesome party.
These are some tips I come up with for now. I have had many times of threesome hookup. I think they are quite practical and effective. I wish they can be useful in your experience.